Open Question: When is enough enough when your husband lies about money?

Open Question: When is enough enough when your husband lies about money?
OK, Here is my dirty laundry. I am just beside myself. Got married 4 1/2 years ago. On my wedding day I found out his house was in foreclosure, married him anyway. Then turns out he had filed a bankruptcy (he never disclosed that to me either). Owes money all over town. After 4 years, I have everything in my name, he can't get any credit what-so-ever. Long story short we did have a decent sum of money in a Roth IRA… (so I thought) 2 Weeks ago, I get a notice from the IRS stating that we owe 10,000.00 in back taxes for cashing out our IRA. I have no idea what he did with our life savings, he won't tell me the truth.. I love the man, but I think I need to leave him…. There is no trust left, or can you recover from something like this? Any feedback would be greatly appreciated!
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Open Question: Will credit card default cause home forclosure?
I have no equity in the house but want to keep it over the credit cards if they charge off and go to collection can or will the creditors demand home foreclosure.
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Open Question: on Yahoo Real Estate - Can you buy Houses in Foreclosure at their listing price?
I'm starting to learn about real estate in general. A house in my neighborhood on yahoo real esate is in foreclosure with $25,000 left to pay on the house. Can you make an offer to the bank to pay that $25,000 off and take ownership of the house? Or do you have to go to the auction and bid that? Please answer both questions. Thanks.
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